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Hey, Y’all! I’m excited to share some moments from our love story, a few pictures from our wedding, and the words to a beautiful song, “God Gave You to Me.” This is an original that Daron wrote and recorded for me as a wedding gift.

Praying for My Husband

I was single for six years after my divorce, and I remember praying that God would send me a man after God’s heart. During this time, I wrote these exact words on my tear-stained prayer journal over and over again. I longed for a husband who would also pray for Easton and me. We needed a man who would be the spiritual leader of our home.

When God sent Daron to me, He far exceeded my prayers and expectations. Daron has a heart of worship and a passion for helping others come to know Christ. His love for God and others is truly unlike anyone else’s that I’ve ever met. He loves people right where they are, without judgment, and deeply loves his family. But, what’s best is that he loves me so deeply. Daron loves with a love that I’m convinced only comes from knowing God as he does.

Brooke and Daron Our Love Story

Brooke and Daron: Our Love Story

Like a beautiful flower that blooms in the Springtime, our love story blossomed out of a seed of friendship. Most importantly, it found sturdy roots in our strong faith in God. My previous church Pastor introduced us, and I can still remember the first time Daron asked to call me. He requested that I FaceTime him. Until then, I had only used FaceTime to speak to my 6-year-old son when I was away for business. I can remember thinking, how do I FaceTime another adult?! And, if I was going through with this call, I would have to be sitting by a window for good lighting! You know what I’m talking about, ladies!

Brooke and Daron Our Love Story

If you know Daron, you know that he has the gift of persistence, and because of this, you better believe he got me on that FaceTime call. Our first call was straightforward as we talked about our faith, kids, families, dreams, and losses. I’ve learned that it’s easier to talk to someone when you find things in common. Daron and I quickly realized we share a lot, from our love of God to talking about leadership and business, to traveling and working out. Oh, and I can’t forget about our passion for golf! But, the most common ground we had, is that we both know what it’s like to have experienced deep brokenness.

Common Ground of Brokenness:

You see, both Daron and I have walked through arduous trials and seasons in our lives. Together, we’ve experienced the heartbreak of divorce, the agony of losing a spouse to cancer, and the crushing feelings of being betrayed by those closest to you. Not to mention, the trying times of raising children as single parents and the hurt that comes with the loss of dreams unfulfilled. We both have endured the kinds of pain and trials that should have wholly broken us. But, our faith in God sustained us and kept us going, even on days when all we could say was, “But I’m still here.

Brooke and Daron Our Love Story

Fasting & Praying Together:

During the first weeks of our daily, long-distance FaceTime calls from Texas to Kentucky; our friendship grew stronger. I remember Daron asking if I would go on a three-day fast with him. Until this point in my life, I had never gone on a fast of any kind with a friend, boyfriend, or husband. However, Daron had suggested that we fast with the goal of surrendering our friendship to God and trusting Him to give us direction. I’m sure you see where this is going!

While I was reserved about being more than friends with Daron, I knew that he wanted more, and I was desperate for God’s will for my life. We gave up solid food for three days and committed to seeking God’s direction for our relationship. I can honestly say that it was life-changing for me and the turning point in our friendship. After this time of fasting, I believe that God allowed me to see Daron’s heart as my future husband and spiritual leader. God began revealing what could happen if I opened up to allow Daron to be more than just a close friend. I also believe that God started exposing the fears and anxieties I had struggled with during my single time. These fears stopped me from being vulnerable and receiving love from others.

Brooke and Daron: Falling In Love:

To celebrate the end of our three-day fast, Daron asked me to join him for a leadership conference in Dallas. So, I agreed. I can remember that weekend like it was yesterday! We had the best time together, laughing, praying, worshiping, and golfing. We had conversations that never seemed to end. There was no question in our hearts as we left Dallas that Sunday that we were falling in love. Once we got home, we started talking about our future together. We both dreamed of being best friends, doing life for Jesus with our families, and having as much fun as possible.

Brooke and Daron Our Love Story

Brooke and Daron: The Proposal & Wedding

A few months later, once we had met each other’s children and had peace in our hearts, Daron proposed! I was outside on the back porch, taking in the gorgeous Texas sunshine and drinking my coffee when Daron surprised me. He got down on one knee and slipped the most beautiful ring on my finger! He asked if I would spend my life being his best friend and grow old with him. Of course, you already know I said yes! We celebrated with tears of happiness and thankfulness to God for bringing us together.

We both knew we didn’t want to wait to plan a large or expensive wedding, so Daron and I decided to elope. It was just the two of us! We found a beautiful resort in Cabo San Lucas. Over email, I planned everything from the ceremony to the music to the flowers. Yes, I’m still in shock that everything turned out so perfectly!

Brooke and Daron Our Love Story

We decided to write our own vows, and as a gift (one of the best gifts I’ve ever received), Daron wrote and recorded a song for me that he sang at the ceremony. While we didn’t know anyone at the resort, our beautiful wedding by the ocean drew some onlookers. After Daron’s song played, there wasn’t a dry eye on the beach or Facebook Live, where our families watched. The evening was a night we both will never forget.

The Anthem of Our Lives:

Initially, Daron wrote the song to remember our love story. Little did we know that the words of that song, which center around “Trusting God as He leads us by Faith,” would become the anthem of our lives. Shortly after we said “I Do,” we both prayed that God would teach us to surrender our hearts to each other and our family to Him and what He has for us.

Brooke and Daron Our Love Story

It’s been a few years since we said that prayer, and His plan looks completely different than anything I could have imagined. We moved to a new house in a city more than 500 miles away, left schools, and said goodbye to friends and family. We walked out of a season of cancer with my mom, and dealt with the everyday struggles of a newly blended family.

These past few years have had many emotional highs and lows that we never planned or expected. Thankfully, we have each other and our faith in God’s perfect plan for us. We find encouragement in the song Daron wrote and sang to me on our wedding day.

Daron’s Wedding Song:

God gave you to me. 
Two hearts beating as one 
Our future can be complete now. 
Each day we walk in victory. 
Take me by the hand. 
And He’ll lead us by faith. 
We may not understand 
But he has a perfect plan. 
God knows what’s best for us. 
And he can do all things.
He can do all things.
His plan is perfect. 
His grace is amazing. 
Baby, I’m surrendering my all. 
I’ll love you, faithfully. 
I’ll honor and adore you. 
With you by my side 
Love is an open door.
Take me by my hand. 
And he’ll lead us by faith. 
We may not understand 
But he has a perfect plan. 
God knows what’s best for us. 
And he can do all things.
God knows what’s best for us. 
And he can do all things. 

 

Encouragement to Those Who Read Our Story:

God has a perfect plan for you and your life. I love the words of my favorite scripture:

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Jeremiah 29:11

Encouragement to Single Ladies:

Keep praying and trusting that God has a plan for your future and knows who you need as your husband. Committing to marriage is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. When you trust God to be your matchmaker, He will direct your steps. You will meet a man of God that will be a spiritual leader, a prayer partner, provider, and an encourager. Be intentional about praying for your future husband, and have fun enjoying life while you wait on God’s perfect timing.

Encouragement to Friends that Have Gone Through Divorce or Loss:

Trust God with the broken pieces of your heart, and let Him do a work in you that leads to true healing and peace. Surround yourself with encouraging people, and avoid anyone judging you from the pain you have experienced. Ask God to let you forgive anyone that has hurt you, including forgiving yourself. You may need to forgive God if you’re blaming Him for something that has happened in the past as well. Forgiveness will set you free and allow you to move forward toward the promises God has for you.

Encouragement to Married Friends:

Thank God every day for the gift of marriage and your relationship. Ask God to help you be the best husband or wife you can be. Pray for your marriage every day! If your marriage or relationship is hard right now, keep praying and trust God. I believe God can bring healing and restoration when both people surrender to His plan.

XOXO,

 

 

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